Dating Tips for Women
The first and most important rule is to be yourself and relax, though not too much.
Clothes
Wear something you feel comfortable in but do make a bit of an effort and be practical. Don’t wear a short skirt that you are going to be pulling at every five minutes in case something is showing. Do dress for the occasion. If you are meeting at the pub don’t wear your little black dress. Low cut tops are good but remember that you want his attention on you, not your cleavage.
Underwear
Wearing big “Bridget” pants are a good incentive not to get too intimate but don’t necessarily leave you in an attractive frame of mind. Though being seen in your underwear on a first date is not something that should be concerning you, wearing underwear that makes you feel confident and sexy is always a good idea.
Conversation
Don't talk about ex-boyfriends. You need to focus on your possible future with your date and not your past partners. Avoid talking about yourself too much and ask questions, without interrogating him and listen attentively.
Establish Common Interests
Try to establish a common interest early on, so you can both talk with equal enthusiasm about it e.g. A country you've both visited or a hobby.
Correct Body Language
It's important to look and feel comfortable. Don't fold your arms, keep eye contact and lean in towards your date. Try and make subtle physical contact, for example, touch his arm if he says something sad or amusing.
Eating
If you are eating out, choose your food carefully. Don't eat so much that you feel uncomfortable, and don't eat like a sparrow. Messy food like Spaghetti Bolognese is a no-no. Garlic, onions or other smelly foods are not a good idea unless he's having them.
Mobile Phones
Make sure your mobile phone is turned off. To send/receive text messages or calls appears rude. He needs to feel that he has your undivided attention. (The phone is handy however if the date is not going at all well. Nip to the loo and get a friend to call you when you're back at the table with a get away excuse.) Just make sure you give the guy a fair chance to impress as he might be nervous too.
Drinking
Don't get too drunk. Have a few drinks so you are sociable and more laid back but do not drink in excess. Drinking before the date can give you extra confidence but don't have too many. Otherwise he'll think you're a major lightweight when you're falling off your chair after one glass of wine!
End of the Date
At the end of the date, it's important to leave him wanting more. Sex on the first date is never a good idea. If the mood takes you both there's nothing wrong with a quick snog, after all a you can tell a lot from a man by the way he kisses and responds to being kissed.